AT HOME WITH VITA x Nilou Motamed
Nilou Motamed: I’m definitely a maximalist when it comes to entertaining – I think it comes from the Iranian sensibility of “more is more.” Entertaining for me is all about setting a seductive mood and including lots of surprise and discovery throughout the evening. We’ll do a casual tasting of olive oils or amari we’ve brought back from recent trips. I love it when our guests are having so much fun that they don’t want to leave.
NM: Working in food has underscored the importance of prep – you’re only as good as how much you get done in advance when you’re throwing a dinner party. Just like in a restaurant kitchen, mise en place is key. True to my magazine editorial background, I love a theme, even if it just means gravitating toward a general region of Italy or France to draw inspiration from. I find it also helps focus the lens for the wines and cocktails I’ll be serving. The most important thing I’ve learned from my time on Iron Chef is how meaningful it is to take guests on a journey with the food you serve. It’s so much more powerful to eat a dish if it’s accompanied by a great story. Most important tip: Guests are the priority, not what you’re serving.
NM: There’s no question that my mother is my true North Star when it comes to entertaining. She’s the OG entertainer and I’m grateful for all the tips and tricks she’s taught me that have now become essential parts of my repertoire. She’s an exquisite self-taught cook and all of my Persian recipes are directly cribbed from her. Growing up, I remember the amazingly glamorous dinner parties she threw – sparkling crystal, gleaming, silver, platter after platter of jeweled rice and stews redolent with saffron and turmeric. I honestly didn’t realize how her refined entertaining style had been imbued in me until I found myself trying to recreate her parties as an adult myself.
NM: I love to serve Persian food when I can because it’s still pretty foreign to most Americans. Everyone loves to cheer along as I flip a pot of rice to reveal the crispy, golden tahdig. And it’s always fun to kick things off with some osetra caviar – which I grew up with in Iran. I mean everybody swoons over caviar but many people don’t realize that the best caviar in the world is actually from Iran, which is right on the Caspian Sea. I guess I just love to include anything that’s memorable – food, for me, is about sharing joyful moments with the ones you love.
NM: No dinner party is complete without a killer playlist, a magnum (or bigger of champagne) and lots of talking late into the night.
NM: Of course, I’d have to pick Persian food traditions because they’re such an integral part of my DNA but I also grew up in Paris so French “cuisine de tradition” is incredibly compelling to me. And I’m obsessed with all manner of food from Southeast Asia: Vietnam, Thailand, Laos. Wait, I can’t forget about Indian cuisine – which is an entire continent of flavor on its own. I’ve tried to play this desert island game before and I always fail miserably. I love that my life has given me access to such a diverse palette of flavors and influences. I’m grateful that I can choose not one but all of them to explore.
NM: It really runs the gamut: Curtis Mayfield, Bill Evans, Bobby Womack, Harry Styles, Caetano Veloso, Tabu Ley Rochereau.
NM: I definitely love the European approach to food – going to specific shops and purveyors for what they do best. We live in Brooklyn so a lot of my favorites are in our borough – but not necessarily in our hood. I’m willing to travel for excellence.
NM: I just spent a dreamy couple of days with Sicilian pastry master Corrado Assenza from Caffè Sicilia. You may have seen an episode of Chef’s Table dedicated to his café in the beautiful Baroque town of Noto in southeastern Sicily. Over the most delicious almond granita and perfect brioche, Corrado and I talked about the cultural importance of heirloom ingredients like the Romana almonds he almost single handedly brought back to popularity with his recipes. He spoke so eloquently and so passionately – and so emotionally -- about the humble Sicilian dishes he grew up eating. It would be an honor to break bread with him and his family, to be a part of that culinary communion.